Should I just stay home for Christmas?

trust me i know what you are going through and i have it a little bit worse than you. what i think you should do is sit down and talk to your aunt in a calm manner and tell her all the things that she does that irritate you and then let her tell you what she doesn't like about you (trust me it works) and try to work things out. and if she doesn't listen to you or ignore you tell her that there will be consequences like not spending as much time together as you usually do. but also remember this in life you will never get another family. cherish what you have and you know what if she doesn't change all you can do is be the better person and lead by example. you make sure that you set an example of how you would want others to treat you so this means when your aunt says something you be the bigger person and don;t yell back and if it progresses to far you leave the area your in. but in my opinion i think you should go for christmas.